References
Following are the Holy Bible verse citations, text, and links to the scriptures used in
Defender: Spiritual Warfare Prayers to Protect Your Family
and
Defender: Companion Guide and Journal.
All verse quotations are from the World English Bible Updated.
Prayer 1: Protecting My Children From Harm and Evil
Merciful Father,
When I think about my children and feel anxious, I reach out for Your help. I know that You can keep them safe when I can’t. Even though I sometimes...
Psalm 91:1–2
He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, “He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.”
Psalm 23:1–4The LORD is my shepherd; I shall lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He guides me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Isaiah 41:10–13Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness. Behold, all those who are incensed against you will be disappointed and confounded. Those who strive with you will be like nothing, and shall perish. You will seek them, and won’t find them, even those who contend with you. Those who war against you will be as nothing, as a nonexistent thing. For I, the LORD your God, will hold your right hand, saying to you, “Don’t be afraid. I will help you.”
Prayer 2: Shielding My Children From Worldly Influences
Heavenly Father,
Our world has so many voices and so much noise, Lord, making it difficult to hear Your voice. Please speak to me and my children above the chaos of the world...
Psalm 62:8
Trust in him at all times, you people. Pour out your heart before him. God is a refuge for us.
1 Corinthians 16:13Watch! Stand firm in the faith! Be courageous! Be strong!
Matthew 18:5–6Whoever receives one such little child in my name receives me, but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to stumble, it would be better for him if a huge millstone were hung around his neck and that he were sunk in the depths of the sea.
Prayer 3: Guarding My Children Against Peer Pressure
Heavenly Father,
I entrust my children to You, Lord, with my heart filled with hope, though my mind is often concerned. I know peer pressure can feel overwhelming. I worry...
Deuteronomy 31:6
Be strong and courageous. Don’t be afraid or scared of them, for the LORD your God himself is who goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you.
Proverbs 13:20One who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.
1 Peter 5:8–9Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him steadfast in your faith, knowing that your brothers who are in the world are undergoing the same sufferings.
Prayer 4: Guarding My Children’s Friendships
Faithful and Ever-Loving Father,
When I notice my children facing struggles in their friendships, I bring my worries to You, Lord. Sometimes I feel...
Isaiah 54:17
No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of the LORD’s servants, and their righteousness is of me, says the LORD.
2 Thessalonians 3:3But the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one.
Proverbs 17:17A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity.
Prayer 5: Protecting My Children in Their Daily Lives
Loving God,
As my children head into each new day at school, playdates, or activities with their friends, I trust You to watch over them. I know that...
Psalm 138:8
The LORD will fulfill that which concerns me. Your loving kindness, LORD, endures forever. Don’t forsake the works of your own hands.
Philippians 4:6–7In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
Proverbs 14:26In the fear of the LORD is a secure fortress, and he will be a refuge for his children.
Prayer 6: Guarding My Children’s Hearts From Lies
Heavenly Father,
I ask You to guard my children’s hearts in this world full of loud, confusing messages about who they’re supposed to be. When I can’t be there to protect them...
Ephesians 6:10–18
Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. Stand therefore, having the utility belt of truth buckled around your waist, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and having fitted your feet with the preparation of the Good News of peace, above all, taking up the shield of faith, with which you will be able to quench all the fiery darts of the evil one. And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; with all prayer and requests, praying at all times in the Spirit, and being watchful to this end in all perseverance and requests for all the saints.
2 Corinthians 10:3–5For though we walk in the flesh, we don’t wage war according to the flesh; for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ.
Romans 8:38–39For I am persuaded that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing will be able to separate us from God’s love which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Prayer 7: Guarding My Children’s Minds Against Anxiety
Father,
Thank You for the gift of my children. I bring their hearts to You now. When anxiety tries to fill their minds, I humbly ask...
2 Samuel 22:3–4
God is my rock in whom I take refuge; my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my high tower, and my refuge. My savior, you save me from violence. I call on the LORD, who is worthy to be praised; So shall I be saved from my enemies.
Psalm 34:6This poor man cried, and the LORD heard him, and saved him out of all his troubles.
1 John 4:18There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear has punishment. He who fears is not made perfect in love.
Prayer 8: Guarding My Children’s Choices From Temptation
Holy and Compassionate Father,
When my children face hard choices, I lift them up to You. Please break anything that tries to pull them away. Give them wisdom to...
Isaiah 40:31
But those who wait for the LORD will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles. They will run, and not be weary. They will walk, and not faint.
1 John 1:9If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
Psalm 32:7You are my hiding place. You will preserve me from trouble. You will surround me with songs of deliverance.
Prayer 9: Cultivating Godly Character in My Children
Loving Father,
I come to You and ask that You mold my children into people who are kind, honest, and loving. I know they’ll face struggles, but...
Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.
Colossians 3:12–13Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.
Philippians 1:6Being confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.
Prayer 10: Guiding My Children in Discernment and Truth
Holy God of Unwavering Light,
In this world filled with ideas and mixed messages, I lift my children to You and ask that You guide them as they grow and learn. Help them turn away...
Psalm 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
James 1:5But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.
Philippians 1:9–10This I pray, that your love may abound yet more and more in knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, that you may be sincere and without offense to the day of Christ.
Prayer 11: Breaking the Spirit of Fear in My Children
Merciful Father,
When fear tries to take hold of my children and I am not near, I ask for Your divine help. I know You are stronger than anything making them feel...
2 Timothy 1:7
For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.
Psalm 27:1The LORD is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The LORD is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?
Isaiah 35:4Tell those who have a fearful heart, “Be strong! Don’t be afraid! Behold, your God will come with vengeance, God’s retribution. He will come and save you.”
Prayer 12: Breaking Strongholds in My Children
God of All Comfort,
When my children are stuck in strongholds that hurt them, I come to You for help. Please set them free from whatever traps them...
John 8:36
If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed.
Joel 2:25–26I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, the great locust, the grasshopper, and the caterpillar, my great army, which I sent among you. You will have plenty to eat and be satisfied, and will praise the name of the LORD, your God, who has dealt wondrously with you; and my people will never again be disappointed.
Isaiah 49:25But the LORD says, “Even the captives of the mighty shall be taken away, and the plunder retrieved from the fierce, for I will contend with him who contends with you and I will save your children.”
Prayer 13: Declaring God’s Purpose for My Children’s Future
Dear Faithful Father,
I frequently think about my children's futures, and today I come before You, Lord, to ask that You be their shepherd. Help them walk the good path...
Psalm 127:3
Behold, children are a heritage of the LORD. The fruit of the womb is his reward.
Isaiah 54:13All your children will be taught by the LORD, and your children’s peace will be great.
Deuteronomy 6:6–7These words, which I command you today, shall be on your heart; and you shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up.
Prayer 14: Discovering My Children’s Spiritual Gifts and Calling
Faithful Sculptor of Souls,
Lord, when I think about my children's futures, I worry they might not reach their potential. What if they discover gifts but never pursue them? Or what if...
Psalm 139:13–16
For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well. My frame wasn’t hidden from you, when I was made in secret, woven together in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my body. In your book they were all written, the days that were ordained for me, when as yet there were none of them.
Jeremiah 1:5–9“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you. Before you were born, I sanctified you. I have appointed you a prophet to the nations.” Then I said, “Ah, Lord GOD! Behold, I don’t know how to speak; for I am a child.” But the LORD said to me, “Don’t say, ‘I am a child;’ for you must go to whomever I send you, and you must say whatever I command you. Don’t be afraid because of them, for I am with you to rescue you,” says the LORD. Then the LORD stretched out his hand and touched my mouth. Then the LORD said to me, “Behold, I have put my words in your mouth.”
2 Corinthians 12:9–10He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me. Therefore I take pleasure in weaknesses, in injuries, in necessities, in persecutions, and in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then am I strong.
Prayer 15: Securing My Grandchildren’s Salvation
Heavenly Father,
More than anything, I want my grandchildren to know how deeply You love them. I pray they discover everlasting life found in Jesus Christ. Even if…
2 Peter 3:9
The Lord is not slow concerning his promise, as some count slowness; but he is patient with us, not wishing that anyone should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Romans 5:5And hope doesn’t disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
Ephesians 1:7In him we have our redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace.
Prayer 16: Establishing Godly Influences for My Grandchildren
Faithful Father,
You know how much I love my grandchildren, and I’m so grateful You love them even more. Since the world can be such a wild and tumultuous place, I ask that…
Proverbs 27:17
Iron sharpens iron; so a man sharpens his friend’s countenance.
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up.
Mark 10:13–16They were bringing to him little children, that he should touch them, but the disciples rebuked those who were bringing them. But when Jesus saw it, he was moved with indignation and said to them, “Allow the little children to come to me! Don’t forbid them, for God’s Kingdom belongs to such as these. Most certainly I tell you, whoever will not receive God’s Kingdom like a little child, he will in no way enter into it.” He took them in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them.
Prayer 17: Protecting My Grandchildren’s Paths
O Lord,
I care deeply for my grandchildren. Since life can be uncertain and difficult at times, I ask that You guide them always to walk in Your light, away from...
2 Timothy 1:5
Having been reminded of the sincere faith that is in you, which lived first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice and, I am persuaded, in you also.
Proverbs 17:6Children’s children are the crown of old men; the glory of children is their parents.
Mark 9:37Whoever receives one such little child in my name receives me; and whoever receives me, doesn’t receive me, but him who sent me.
Prayer 18: Building a Godly Bond With My Grandchildren
Gracious God,
What a gift my grandchildren are! I come to You today with a grateful heart, and I ask that You help me build a close and loving bond with them. I want a connection…
Deuteronomy 4:9
Only be careful, and keep your soul diligently, lest you forget the things which your eyes saw, and lest they depart from your heart all the days of your life; but make them known to your children and your children’s children.
Psalm 78:4We will not hide them from their children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the LORD, his strength, and his wondrous deeds that he has done.
1 Corinthians 13:4–7Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things.
Prayer 19: Strengthening My Spouse’s Relationship With God
Loving Father,
I’m so thankful for my spouse, who is such a blessing in my life! I lift them up to You today and ask that...
Isaiah 64:8
But now, LORD, you are our Father. We are the clay and you our potter. We all are the work of your hand.
Proverbs 3:5–6Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Jeremiah 29:13You shall seek me and find me, when you search for me with all your heart.
Prayer 20: Protecting My Spouse Against Temptation
Protector and Redeemer,
Our world is full of temptation. I love my spouse, and I never want to see them stumble or be lost. Jesus, I ask that You wrap them in strength and...
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
James 4:7Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Psalm 18:2The LORD is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge; my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my high tower.
Prayer 21: Cultivating Wisdom and Integrity in My Spouse
Holy and Loving God,
What joy my spouse brings into my life! I am so grateful for them. Lord, Your Word is filled with people of wisdom and integrity. I ask You to fill my spouse with...
Psalm 25:4–5
Show me your ways, LORD. Teach me your paths. Guide me in your truth, and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation. I wait for you all day long.
Proverbs 10:9He who walks blamelessly walks surely, but he who perverts his ways will be found out.
Psalm 119:105Your word is a lamp to my feet, and a light for my path.
Prayer 22: Shielding Our Marriage From Spiritual Attacks
Faithful Father,
Together, we come to You with our hearts wide open, and we ask You to bless our marriage. Wrap Your mighty arms around us, keep our love strong...
Ecclesiastes 4:12
If a man prevails against one who is alone, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Ephesians 4:2–3With all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love, being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
Psalm 91:4He will cover you with his feathers. Under his wings you will take refuge. His faithfulness is your shield and rampart.
Prayer 23: Breaking Strongholds of Division in Our Marriage
Merciful Father,
We open our hearts to You and ask that we will always be united in our marriage, both in spirit and in purpose. As Aquila and Priscilla served You faithfully...
Ephesians 2:14
For he is our peace, who made both one, and broke down the middle wall of separation.
2 Corinthians 13:11Finally, brothers, rejoice! Be perfected. Be comforted. Be of the same mind. Live in peace, and the God of love and peace will be with you.
Romans 15:5–6Now the God of perseverance and of encouragement grant you to be of the same mind with one another according to Christ Jesus, that with one accord you may with one mouth glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Prayer 24: Breaking Anger and Resentment in Our Marriage
Holy Father,
With hopeful hearts, my spouse and I ask You to mend our marriage where anger and old hidden hurts have taken hold. Help us forgive one another...
Ephesians 4:31–32
Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
James 1:19–20So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger; for the anger of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God.
Psalm 147:3He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds.
Prayer 25: Overcoming Temptation and Unfaithfulness in Our Marriage
Holy and Compassionate God,
We enter Your Presence with joyful hearts. We know that You protect our marriage from temptation and keep our love strong. Like Ruth and Boaz...
Matthew 26:41
Watch and pray, that you don’t enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.
Hebrews 13:4Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.
1 John 2:16For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—isn’t the Father’s, but is the world’s.
Prayer 26: Breaking Soul Ties in Our Marriage
Holy and Loving Father,
As we struggle with memories of our pasts, we humbly ask You, Lord, to break any unhealthy bonds that prevent the wholeness of our marriage...
Isaiah 43:18–19
Don’t remember the former things, and don’t consider the things of old. Behold, I will do a new thing. It springs out now. Don’t you know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.
Galatians 5:1Stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and don’t be entangled again with a yoke of bondage.
Jeremiah 30:17“For I will restore health to you, and I will heal you of your wounds,” says the LORD, “because they have called you an outcast, saying, ‘It is Zion, whom no man seeks after.’”
Prayer 27: Protecting Our Marriage From External Influences
Heavenly Father,
There are countless outside pressures, sins, and temptations that threaten the unity of our marriage. We humbly ask You, Lord, to protect us...
Psalm 28:7
The LORD is my strength and my shield. My heart has trusted in him, and I am helped. Therefore my heart greatly rejoices. With my song I will thank him.
Proverbs 4:23Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life.
Psalm 121:7–8The LORD will keep you from all evil. He will keep your soul. The LORD will keep your going out and your coming in, from this time forward, and forever more.
Prayer 28: Declaring Unity and Peace in Our Marriage
Heavenly Father,
When misunderstandings or stress create distance between us, we pray, God, for unity and lasting peace in our marriage. We see in Your Word examples...
Mark 10:9
What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
1 Peter 3:8Finally, all of you be like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous.
Ephesians 5:25,28Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for her … Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself.
Prayer 29: Restoring Spiritual Alignment in Our Marriage
Loving Father,
We seek to walk with You in faith and purpose. Just as Abraham and Sarah journeyed together under Your guidance, align our hearts and spirits...
Amos 3:3
Do two walk together, unless they have agreed?
Philippians 2:2Make my joy full by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.
Colossians 3:16Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your heart to the Lord.
Prayer 30: Strengthening Emotional Intimacy in Our Marriage
Loving Father,
We ask You, God, to forge an even deeper holy bond between us. Just as Isaac and Rebekah found great comfort in each other's presence, open our hearts...
1 Peter 4:8
And above all things be earnest in your love among yourselves, for love covers a multitude of sins.
Galatians 5:16But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you won’t fulfill the lust of the flesh.
Proverbs 20:5Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out.
Prayer 31: Declaring God’s Blessings Over Our Marriage
Faithful Father,
Thank You, God, for our marriage! We ask that You pour Your joy, unity, and love into our relationship. Your Word tells...
Numbers 6:24–26
The LORD bless you, and keep you. The LORD make his face to shine on you, and be gracious to you. The LORD lift up his face toward you, and give you peace.
Psalm 128:1–2Blessed is everyone who fears the LORD, who walks in his ways. For you will eat the labor of your hands. You will be happy, and it will be well with you.
Ephesians 3:20–21Now to him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to him be the glory in the assembly and in Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.
Prayer 32: Breaking Generational Curses in My Family
Our Father in Heaven,
When I look at my family’s past and present, I pray that You will break every generational curse, heal old wounds, and start...
Galatians 3:13–14
Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, “Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree,” that the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Christ Jesus, that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.
Isaiah 61:1–4The Lord GOD’s Spirit is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the humble. He has sent me to bind up the broken hearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and release to those who are bound, to proclaim the year of the LORD’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, to provide for those who mourn in Zion, to give to them a garland for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness, that they may be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the LORD, that he may be glorified. They will rebuild the old ruins. They will raise up the former devastated places. They will repair the ruined cities that have been devastated for many generations.
Exodus 20:5–6You shall not bow yourself down to them, nor serve them, for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and on the fourth generation of those who hate me, and showing loving kindness to thousands of those who love me and keep my commandments.
Prayer 33: Establishing a Godly Heritage for My Family
Ever-Faithful God,
I come into Your Presence with a grateful heart, thankful for my family and the blessings You have poured over us. Just as Lois and Eunice passed down...
Genesis 17:7
I will establish my covenant between me and you and your offspring after you throughout their generations for an everlasting covenant, to be a God to you and to your offspring after you.
Psalm 103:17–18But the LORD’s loving kindness is from everlasting to everlasting with those who fear him, his righteousness to children’s children, to those who keep his covenant, to those who remember to obey his precepts.
Proverbs 13:22A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children, but the wealth of the sinner is stored for the righteous.
Prayer 34: Blessing Future Generations of My Family
O God of Unending Faithfulness,
I am full of hope for my family’s future, just as Hannah's prayers shaped Samuel and a legacy of devotion. I come humbly before You to ask that You...
Psalm 112:1–2
Praise the LORD! Blessed is the man who fears the LORD, who delights greatly in his commandments. His offspring will be mighty in the land. The generation of the upright will be blessed.
Deuteronomy 7:9Know therefore that the LORD your God himself is God, the faithful God, who keeps covenant and loving kindness to a thousand generations with those who love him and keep his commandments.
Isaiah 44:3For I will pour water on him who is thirsty, and streams on the dry ground. I will pour my Spirit on your descendants, and my blessing on your offspring.